Sunday, March 29, 2020
Father Chemistry And Why It Is Important To Maintain It
Father Chemistry And Why It Is Important To Maintain ItIt is expected of all children to do their share in a parent's caring for their physical and mental health, but what does that mean when it comes to father chemistry? Does it mean doing a lot of things for your dad or better yet, does it mean you let him do the things that are needed in order to be the best father possible?It is expected of all children to do their share in a parent's caring for their physical and mental health, but what does that mean when it comes to father chemistry? Does it mean doing a lot of things for your dad or better yet, does it mean you let him do the things that are needed in order to be the best father possible?The bond between you and your children has changed considerably since you were married. He no longer has to be the one to go through all the physical therapy for you just to make you feel better or the one to attend to your needs. This means that your role as their parent is no longer the sam e as it was before.Of course there are still times when your dad will need some time alone with you. Even if it is only to catch up on the time spent with him, it will make you feel loved. So don't let your child take away your father chemistry with you. He will miss you and that would just make him miss the bond that he once had with you.What is more important to your father though, that physical closeness or that affection that he once felt towards you? There is no need to choose one over the other, both will bring you happiness. As parents, we tend to forget the importance of each of these and it is very hard to maintain the bond.I am not trying to say that one is better than the other, there is nothing wrong with loving him more than the other way around. It is important to remember that one will always be part of the other. One way of maintaining father chemistry is to simply show him that you are proud of his accomplishments in life and that you look up to him.One example of s howing him this would be if you mentioned that you know that he is proud of you for getting a new job, or that you were happy that you made the most out of your college education. Do not overdo it though, because your father will come to expect too much from you in order to give you father chemistry.The key to father chemistry is to be flexible enough to keep up with his life. You have to be as busy as him if you want to be there for him. If you show him that you are there for him, he will always have a reason to come home to you.
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